Learning how to get a guy to propose to you can mean the difference between walking down the aisle with the man you adore and spending years in limbo wondering where your relationship is headed. It is possible for a woman to make her boyfriend want to get married, even if he claims to be commitment phobic. If you’re involved with a man like this you need to understand exactly what steps you should be taking to make him feel compelled to want a more serious commitment with you.
Here are a few ways which can help you to get your guy to propose:
- Hint subtly when you want your man to notice
When you want a man to propose to you, you can’t wake up in the morning and land that bomb on him. Start with giving him subtle hints such as leaving magazine articles about marriage and couples on his dining table. Don’t go so far as to lay out bridal magazines or pictures of wedding bands since this will scare your man off. - Show him that other men are giving you a lot of attention
Another way to wake your man up is by showing him that there are other men who are giving you a lot of attention. Say it all as if it is a big joke to you. But he will know that he has competition now and has to make his move fast. - Get his friends and family to adore you
When your man’s friends and family like you then half your job is done. Get talking on someone’s wedding and the topic will immediately drift to you. All you need to do is say that your man hasn’t said anything yet. They will all automatically get into action to get your man’s mind around marriage. - Bring him home to meet your family during an important family event.
By inviting him to an important family event you communicate subliminally to him that you think he is very special to you, and that you want him to meet those who are most important in your life. - Start talking about the future generally
You need to start talking about the future assuming that the two of you are going to eventually get married. Make it seem like the most natural progression and ask him if he wants to make a joint investment etc. He will get the message as to what you want. - Don’t force him to propose
Keep the pressure off of your man when it comes to getting him to propose. The last thing that you want is to come across as a woman who is trying to take away his freedom. Don’t assume that your man is on the same page as you are just because you are ready for marriage. Talk to him about it, but remember not to try to push him into making a decision about whether he will or will not propose to you. Instead give him his space and encourage him to do well without putting any pressure on him. That will make him see that you are too good to let go of. - Make him miss you
At times you need to play some mind games to make things go in your favor. Go away for a little while and make your man miss you. Give him the feeling that unless you are married to each other you have the freedom to walk away whenever you want to. - Point out the positives of getting married to you
Lastly show him how getting married to you is a good idea. Point him a good picture about marriage and its positives such as additional benefits etc and get him to propose to you. - If you have tried talking to him with little to no results,
then try asking one of his friends if your man has cold feet about
marriage.
Do it discreetly and as nicely as possible so that when his friend relays the conversation you won’t seem like you are marriage crazy. Either he will see that you are serious about moving forward and hopefully talk to you about his thoughts on the subject matter. - Give him a lot of freedom.
Never give him a hard time about hanging out with his friends. Sooner or later he will realize that he has a good thing going and will not want to lose you. And certainly the only way he will get to keep you all to himself is by proposing marriage to you. - If all else has fails, then ask him if he thinks of you as the kind of girl he could marry someday.
At least this way if he answers no and you still want to get married you will stop wasting your time and find another guy who is ready to settle down with you.
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